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Is holding a grudge in our nature? Well, for some more than others… There are people who only stay angry for a couple of days. And there are people who can hold a grudge until their grave. Is it worth holding a grudge for that long though? Is It Worth Holding A Grudge? At some point in life, someone will offend you. This could be a friend, family member or even a stranger. It’s inevitable! Most of us choose to hold a grudge and don’t realise that holding a grudge ends up hurting you more than the person who offended you. You’re the one who gets worked up when you think about the situation or even when you hear the offender’s name! Some of us even forget why they fell out with an old friend but still hold a grudge because of “the principle”. The thing is there’s a principle in every situation.…

What’s the first thing you normally do after upsetting someone? Apologise? But what if your apology isn’t accepted; what do you do then? ‘Think before you speak’ is a very common quote that we all know but sometimes seem to forget. There can be times where the wrong words find their way in your mouth. Instead of thinking before you speak, you end up saying something offensive. You might not think you did any harm with what you said. But guess what, it can still be taken the wrong way which can lead to you hurting someone’s feelings. Is An Apology Enough? I’ve found myself in very crazy situation recently where I literally messed up. There’s no other way in putting this. I actually f*cked up… I said some stuff that wasn’t cool but didn’t think it would do any harm. What I said has cost me my best friend *sigh*. Should’ve known better…