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It’s coming up to the most LOVABLE time of the year. Some people have been looking forward to this day for a very long time. And there are people who wished that this day didn’t exist due to one reason or the other. Could be due to a heartbreak, memories of an ex or maybe they just don’t give a flying duck about this date. Either way, it doesn’t change the fact that Valentine’s Day is almost here. What Have You Got Planned For Valentine’s Day? Have you made any plans with bae? If you did, that’s good for you! Spoil your bae. In fact, show EXTRA love to bae if you like. Do whatever floats your boat. But what do you get up to on Valentine’s Day if you’re single and don’t have a bae to spend the day with? A lot of single people don’t look forward to this…

Have you ever found yourself breaking up with your ex only for things to feel like nothing has changed? Let me paint the picture… You’re still in regular contact with each other by having your daily WhatsApp debates, still sending each other memes through Instagram and let’s not forget about acting lovey-dovey like nothing has changed… This could be from days to months after the breakup! So when is the relationship really over I hear you say? Good question! Let’s dive straight into it. “Are You Guys Still Together?” Every couple has something that they would describe as ‘that’s our thing’. It could be from having a date night scheduled every Friday night to going back and forth with WhatsApp voice notes during working hours. It varies from couple to couple. Now imagine if “this thing” was to carry on after the breakup… I’ve experienced a few breakups in my lifetime that didn’t make any…

My love life has felt like a long roller coaster ride for the past couple of years. One minute, things are going very well with a guy and then suddenly things change. Does this scenario ring a bell to you? It’s like the conversations become less. You stop receiving those ‘Good morning miss, I hope you slept well’ messages. Every morning, you still wake up eager to find out whether he messaged you overnight. You look at your phone and guess what… NO text and missed calls from him. To make things worse, he even read your message on WhatsApp but didn’t respond back. Things just don’t feel the same anymore… What Have I Done?         ‘Have I done something wrong?’ is probably the first thought that strikes your mind. ‘Hmmm maybe he’s busy’ is what you say to reassure yourself that you haven’t done anything wrong. Somehow you end up reminiscing about…

When are we coming to eat Jollof? When are we going to cut a cake? These are the type of questions people bombard me with at family parties and in the church. As a Nigerian lady, I’ve noticed that if you’re in your mid 20’s and you’re not engaged or do not have a boyfriend, people will start being concerned. Read this in an African accent: ‘Ah ah, are you being too picky? Why don’t you have a boyfriend by now? Are you driving them away? It’s funny how they ask and accuse me of all these things. These are the same people that advised me to focus on getting a degree in university and not have a boyfriend because men are a distraction. So aunty, if I actually took your advice (not like it makes any difference to my current relationship status), how the hell am I supposed to be engaged right now lol? Why Is Everyone Playing Cupid?…

It’s the beginning of a new week and we all know what that means… On The Low Podcast has dropped a new episode! Everyone is back from holiday now so you can dry your eyes lol. It would be weird if I didn’t say that a lot has happened in the last two weeks. From Reggie Yates stepping down from hosting this year’s Top of The Pops to Rita Ora going on a date night with the happily married Conor McGregor. Let’s see what the girls have to say about all these things… JUST THE TIP The wait is over! Eminem is about to drop a new album called Revival after disappearing for a couple of years. The last time he dropped an album was four years ago! His fans must be jumping for joy. The track-list has got a lot of people talking. Are you excited about this album? SKULLDUGGERY AND…

What happens when you leave three women around a 1L bottle of Spiced Captain Morgan? It becomes an episode of Cackling Women! Raised voices, unapologetic interjections, lots of laughing and let’s not forget the adlibs lol. I guess Captain Morgan just makes one very merry lol. When I say one, I’m talking about a particular lady. Hmm I wonder who that could be… WHO’S IN THE BUILDING THIS WEEK? We’re one man down this week as Jessica is currently riding a camel somewhere in the dessert of Dubai. So it was only right to invite our long lost friend Natalie to keep Jessica’s seat warm. Natalie is not a stranger to the podcast and you would know that if you’ve listened to one of our older episode Black Widow… Again! She’s a fun and bubbly lady who’s not afraid to speak her mind. Make sure you give Natalie a follow on…

A lot has happened in the past two weeks. From Nicki Minaj’s Paper Magazine cover to Big Shaq’s Man’s Not Hot” success. Let’s see what everyone had to say about this…. WHO’S IN THE BUILDING THIS WEEK? After recording last week’s episode, it was only right to sprinkle some more testosterone on the podcast. We had Dispicable Jimmy in the house! He’s what you call a Jack of All Trades and a Master of All lol. He’s an event planner, graphic designer, professional alcoholic and the list goes on. Give him a follow on Twitter @DispicableJimmy. We also had a female guest in our presence. We had the amazing and lovely Lola in the building. She’s the official photographer for the DMD Podcast and keeps herself busy with snapping great moments at events and also for bloggers on request. Check out her pictures on Instagram @lollycommsphotography. RELATIONSHIP AND BULLSH*T Compromising in a…

This was meant to be a blog solely for my tall ladies but this topic actually relates to everyone. Even men can relate to it too! I will be writing in a girl’s perspective based on my experiences so just picture yourself in this situation by answering this question: How would you describe your perfect match using five words? What’s Your Type? If someone was to ask me what my type is, I would say: Tall, Black and Buff. With buff, I mean a guy who’s in shape with muscles. Let’s not mistake this for facial appearance lol. And obviously the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice *winks*! If he has facial hair then that’s a bonus but if he doesn’t, it’s not the end of the world lol. But have I ever ended up with someone who matches this full description? Hmm not really… It’s either the guy I dated…

Back to life, back to reality! The Autumn half term has come to an end *sigh*. I don’t know why I’m sighing to be honest because I still had my 9-5 to go to lol. Didn’t have any days off to enjoy myself *sighs even louder*. Well if you were on holiday this week and haven’t been keeping up with the news, you’ve missed quite a few hot topics. Keep reading to find out… JUST THE TIP Are men trash? Hmm not all men are trash but I can see why a lot of women would disagree. If you’re on Twitter then I’m sure you’ve seen #Whitney trending last week. It seems like her boyfriend was cheating on her with the lady who snapped a picture on SnapChat with the caption ‘Whitney, come and collect your man.’ How would you feel if you were to wake up and see your name trending on Twitter…

A lot of people on Instagram seem to be in a perfect relationship these days. There are loads of #RelationshipGoals pictures of happy couples with a Colgate smile. Love is a beautiful thing! It’s nice to see people happy and enjoying each other’s company. But how many of these pictures are reflecting a reality? Are they just doing it for the gram or are they actually happy in their relationship? Living A Lie  There are people out there that are pretending to be happy. I know of some people who are trying their best to convince everyone that they are in a healthy relationship when in reality they are living a lie. The thing is there is no perfect relationship as we all go through ups and downs. But if you are constantly bumping heads with your boo why are you pretending to be happy? Why are you trying to proof this to everyone?   Focus…